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Under the Big Top, A Spectacle of Strength: The Women’s Safe House Celebrates Courage, Resilience and New Beginnings

EVERY WOMAN DESERVES TO LIVE WITHOUT FEAR. EVERY SURVIVOR DESERVES A NEW BEGINNING.

More than 250 guests gathered at The Big Top in St. Louis' Grand Center Arts District for The Women’s Safe House's second annual Spectacle of Strength Gala, raising more than $150,000 to help survivors of domestic and sexual violence rebuild their lives.

Circus-themed entertainment brought excitement to the evening, while Board of Aldermen President Megan Green-D’Souza delivered a deeply personal and moving message about overcoming abuse and discovering the possibility of a different life.

Among the devoted supporters were Russell Jackson and Alex Gutierrez, whose generosity and unwavering commitment to philanthropy continue to inspire Grayling Holmes and Mary Wimbley.

As Missouri's largest shelter serving survivors of domestic and sexual violence, The Women’s Safe House provides far more than shelter—it offers safety, dignity, hope, and the tools for independence.

With the holidays approaching and the tax year ending, now is an especially meaningful time to give. Whether through a modest contribution or a transformational gift that could help expand its reach, YOUR GENEROSITY CAN CHANGE LIVES.

THE BIG TOP MAY HAVE COME DOWN, BUT THE NEED TO LIFT WOMEN UP CONTINUES EVERY DAY!

❤️ Support survivors and make a difference: twsh.org

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A Sold-Out Celebration, A Community-Wide Cause: J’la Marks 10 Years of Giving Back

The St. Louis Jewish Community Center (the J) celebrates the 10th anniversary of J’la on Sunday, November 15, 2026, at The Factory in Chesterfield, honoring the extraordinary Koritz-Lefton families, whose six decades of multigenerational philanthropy, leadership, and service have helped shape the organization and enrich countless lives.

Following last year's impressive attendance of more than 540 supporters, this year's milestone gala is already SOLD OUT! But the opportunity to give back remains wide open.

Proceeds support the J's vital community programs, including early childhood education, youth camps, Meals on Wheels, adult day services, cultural arts, and financial assistance for hundreds of local families. And here's something everyone should know: the J welcomes and serves the entire St. Louis community, regardless of religious affiliation!

NO TICKET? NO PROBLEM! Donations and sponsorships are still welcome, and interested guests can join the waitlist.

THE GALA MAY BE SOLD OUT, BUT GENEROSITY HAS NO CAPACITY LIMIT!

❤️ Donate or learn more: jccstl.com/jla

✉️ Waitlist: rhoward@jccstl.org

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A Party with a Purpose: Rung for Women Celebrates Empowerment and Raises Over a Quarter Million Dollars for Women's Futures

WHEN WOMEN SUCCEED, ST. LOUIS THRIVES! More than 200 philanthropists, business leaders, and community supporters gathered at Husch Blackwell for Rung for Women's Third Annual Party with a Purpose, raising an impressive $276,500 toward the organization's new Career Center. Hosted by John and Ashley Kemper and Logan and Vivian Finerty, the inspiring evening featured exceptional cuisine by celebrated chef Ben Poremba, custom portraits by Tucker Pierce, and a moving photography exhibition created with Humans of St. Louis, showcasing the remarkable women whose lives Rung is transforming. Heartfelt stories and powerful presentations underscored the organization's commitment to helping women build successful careers and achieve lasting financial independence. More than a glamorous gathering, this was philanthropy with purpose—an investment in women, stronger families, and a brighter future for St. Louis!

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A Feast for Change: An Evening of Elegance, Generosity and the Fight Against Hunger

An enchanting evening of culinary excellence and heartfelt generosity unfolded at Piazza Messina, where 290 guests gathered for Operation Food Search's fifth annual Feast for Change gala, raising more than $200,000 to combat hunger throughout the St. Louis region. Guests enjoyed cocktails, a charming pop-up farmers market, an exquisite locally sourced dinner, and a spirited auction. Emceed by Rene Knott, the celebration honored Bayer with the Champion of Change Award, recognizing a remarkable partnership that began with a $67 donation in 1986 and has grown to more than $2.5 million in contributions. Beyond the evening's elegance was a powerful mission: Operation Food Search provides food and services to 200,000 individuals each month, one-third of them children, through 330 community partners across Missouri and Illinois. Feast for Change proved that when generosity meets purpose, an extraordinary evening can help nourish an entire community.

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HOME IS THE GOAL! GATEWAY180 IS CHANGING LIVES, ONE FAMILY AT A TIME

Every family deserves a safe place to call home. On November 6, 2026, Gateway180, Missouri's largest emergency shelter serving women, children, and families experiencing homelessness, will host its annual Open Your Heart for the Homeless Gala, themed Home Is the Goal!, at the Ultra Club at Energizer Park. Providing shelter to approximately 125 individuals nightly, more than half of them children, Gateway180 offers far more than temporary housing. It provides the resources, encouragement, and supportive services families need to achieve independence and permanent housing. Having personally toured the facility, Sophisticated Living St. Louis contributor Grayling Holmes shares his admiration for the organization's life-changing mission and looks forward to attending the gala with longtime friend Mary Wimbley. Both are committed to becoming lifelong supporters and encourage readers to join them. Whether attending the gala, making an online donation, or volunteering, everyone can help Gateway180 transform homelessness into hope and new beginnings. Tickets and donations: G180Gala26.givesmart.com.

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3rd Annual Mind In Bloom Miriam School Fundraiser

An evening of generosity, inspiration, and heartfelt celebration blossomed into record-breaking success as Miriam School and Learning Center hosted its third annual Minds in Bloom Auction & Dinner on April 18, 2026, at the Clayton Plaza Hotel. Drawing its largest crowd to date, the elegant fundraiser raised more than $300,000, including over $181,000 for the Fund the Future Scholarship Fund, helping make specialized education accessible to more students with learning differences. Moving testimonials from scholarship recipient Eddie and Miriam parent Erin Chien brought the school's life-changing mission into focus. The evening also honored Steve and Karla Rosenblum, the Steele Family, and George Diederich for their extraordinary commitment to Miriam. More than a fundraising triumph, Minds in Bloom celebrated the power of education, philanthropy, and a community determined to help every child flourish.

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WHAT IS ART OF PAWS?

What do original art, fabulous cocktails, and our four-legged friends have in common? Art of PAWS & People! On Saturday, October 24, Vivent Health, continuing the legacy of Saint Louis Effort for AIDS, will host this extraordinary fundraiser at the Gatsby Ballroom STL at The Alverne. Presented by St. Louis-based global pet care leader Purina, a dedicated sponsor for 23 years, the evening features original artwork by celebrated local artists, including Charlie Houska, live and silent auctions, cocktails, and delicious hors d'oeuvres.

But the real heart of the evening is PAWS (Pets Are Wonderful Support), which provides pet food and veterinary assistance to people living with HIV, ensuring they don't have to choose between caring for themselves and their beloved companions. Currently helping approximately 80 clients, with another 50 waiting for assistance, the program urgently needs community support. Art lovers, animal enthusiasts, and philanthropists alike are invited to enjoy an unforgettable evening while helping keep people and the pets they love together. Because sometimes the greatest gift isn't a work of art—it's the unconditional love of a cherished pet.

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35th Annual Forest Park Forever Hat Luncheon

A dazzling parade of elegant, extravagant, and whimsical hats transformed Forest Park’s iconic World’s Fair Pavilion into a spectacular celebration of fashion and philanthropy for the 35th Annual Forest Park Forever Hat Luncheon. Nearly 800 civic leaders, philanthropists, and park enthusiasts gathered for the sold-out affair, raising a record-breaking $665,000 to support the care and preservation of Forest Park’s magnificent 1,300 acres.

Emceed by Carol Daniel and co-chaired by Akberet Boykin Farr and Laura Sawyier, the festivities celebrated two remarkable milestones: Forest Park’s 150th anniversary and Forest Park Forever’s 40th anniversary. Established in 1991, the Hat Luncheon has blossomed into one of St. Louis’ most fashionable and beloved philanthropic traditions, proving that fabulous hats, generous hearts, and civic pride are always in style!

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The 3rd Annual Groovy Do Hairspray at The Muny

Big hair, bold colors and even bigger hearts set the scene as more than 150 donors turned back the clock to the swinging ’60s for The Muny’s third annual Groovy Do fundraiser before the June 18 performance of Hairspray. The Broadhurst Pavilion was buzzing as guests mixed, mingled and got their groove on while raising more than $95,000 to help make the magic of The Muny accessible to everyone. Chaired by Cheree Berry, Ashley Kemper and Brooke Ray, the colorful celebration supported everything from nearly 1,500 free seats at every performance to ASL interpretation, audio description, closed captioning, assistive listening and wheelchair assistance. It was an evening where fabulous fun met a meaningful mission—proving that at The Muny, everyone deserves a seat, everyone deserves to experience the magic, and generosity is always in style.

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Saint Louis Dance Theatre Continues to “Move and Shake!”

Saint Louis Dance Theatre is ready to get St. Louis moving at its annual Movers & Shakers Ball, Friday, October 23, at the Touhill Performing Arts Center at UMSL. Whether you’re a longtime supporter or have never experienced the company before, this is the night to discover why Saint Louis Dance Theatre has become such an exciting force in our city’s cultural landscape. Beginning at 5:30 p.m., the gala promises an unforgettable evening of cocktails and hors d’oeuvres, a main-stage dance performance, silent auction, seated dinner and DJ dance party. More than a glamorous night out, Movers & Shakers supports the world-class dancers, acclaimed choreographers and ambitious programming that are helping put St. Louis on the national contemporary dance map. Come for the party, experience the artistry and become part of the movement.

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The Party That Will Help Put Tony Award-Winning "Appropriate" on the St. Louis Stage

A fabulous pool party with a serious purpose helped make theater history in St. Louis. The Tennessee Williams Festival St. Louis’ signature summer fundraiser, An “In-Appropriate” Afternoon by the Pool, brought 75 arts patrons and philanthropists to the magnificent Central West End home of longtime Festival supporter Andy Arnold for cocktails, cuisine, art and giving. Record proceeds from ticket sales and an auction featuring works by notable artists provided critical funding for the Festival’s 11th season and its landmark production of Branden Jacobs-Jenkins’ Tony Award-winning Appropriate, running September 17–27 at COCA.

The production marks both the St. Louis premiere of Appropriate and the first time the Festival has selected a headliner not written by Tennessee Williams. Instead, the season explores “The Tennessee Effect”—Williams’ enduring influence on contemporary playwrights such as Pulitzer Prize and two-time Tony Award winner Jacobs-Jenkins. Fundraising, together with generous grant support from Washington University, is also helping bring Jacobs-Jenkins to St. Louis for the free “A Conversation with Branden Jacobs-Jenkins” on September 19 at the St. Louis County Library’s Clark Family Branch.

The afternoon proved that behind every great production are patrons willing to help raise the curtain—and sometimes they do it poolside.

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If Only There Had Been a Gratitude House for My Late BFF Bridgette

For writer Grayling Holmes, the mission of Gratitude House is deeply personal. His best friend Bridgette was beautiful, brilliant and raised with every advantage, yet a lifelong battle with alcohol and drug addiction ultimately claimed her life at just 51. Her story is a powerful reminder that addiction knows no ZIP code, social status or income level. Today, Gratitude House offers women in early recovery something Bridgette might have benefited from—an elevated sober-living home combining dignity, structure, accountability and neuroscience-based education to help turn sobriety into lasting recovery. On September 19, the Gratitude GiddyUp Gala at Casa Loma Ballroom will raise critical funds for current operations and an ambitious 2027 expansion, including the new Gratitude Institute for Recovery and Behavioral Change. Whether attending the gala or donating from home, Sophisticated Living readers have an opportunity to help give a woman struggling with addiction the support, tools and time she needs to build a different future—and perhaps a different ending.

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Welcome to Fall: St. Louis’ Season of Celebration in our September/October Issue

Summer may be winding down, but St. Louis is just getting started. In his welcome to the September/October issue, Grayling Holmes looks ahead to the city’s bustling fall gala season and the philanthropists, civic leaders and tastemakers who make it one of the most exciting times of the year. This issue celebrates the people, places and ideas shaping St. Louis, while also taking readers beyond our borders into the worlds of travel, automobiles, wine, fashion, food and luxury living. Look back on summer through the always-popular Celebrations pages, then discover stories ranging from a moving remembrance of philanthropist John Ferring and the fascinating St. Louis origins of the iconic Eames Lounge Chair to our cover story on restaurateur Ben Poremba and his ambitious vision for Maker’s Yard on Delmar. Consider it your invitation to savor fall in St. Louis—before the holidays arrive and 2027 is suddenly at our doorstep.

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The Saint Louis Zoo Took Patrons on a "ZOOFARI" for 2026 Fundraiser

The Saint Louis Zoo's most important annual fundraiser, ZOOFARI 2026 presented by Wells Fargo, brought supporters together for a spectacular summer evening of food, entertainment, and philanthropy on June 12. The all-inclusive "grazing gala" featured signature bites from more than 40 local restaurants and caterers, refreshing libations, and live music from A-Town A-List. Guests also supported the Zoo through a wine pull, bourbon tasting, bubbly wall, silent auction, restaurant gift cards, Topgolf experience, Hearth & Soul pop-up, Kendra Scott Color Bar®, and a giving gallery featuring flamingo artwork. Beyond the festivities, ZOOFARI serves a critical purpose: proceeds from the evening support the Saint Louis Zoo's exceptional animal care and conservation efforts in St. Louis and around the world, making an unforgettable night out an investment in wildlife and its future.

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A Safe Haven. A Second Chance. A Community That Cares.

For nearly five decades, The Women's Safe House has provided hope, safety, and a path forward for women and children escaping domestic violence, and this fall the community has an opportunity to help continue that mission. Donors gathered on August 14, 2026, for the organization's annual gala beneath the spectacular Big Top near Powell Hall. It combined breathtaking aerialists, circus performances, fine dining, and inspiring stories into one of the season's most memorable charitable evenings. Proceeds will support emergency shelter, counseling, advocacy, and life-changing services that empower survivors to rebuild their lives. If you were unable to attend the gala, supporters can always make a tax-deductible donation to the cause. Your funds will make a lasting difference for women and families in crisis while strengthening one of St. Louis' most essential nonprofit organizations.

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An Evening in One of St. Louis' Most Beautiful Gardens

Experience one of Lafayette Square's most beautiful private homes while supporting the future of one of America's oldest urban parks at A Soiree for the Park on September 18. Guests will enjoy an elegant evening of outdoor dining, music, and garden tours, while meeting Jerry Ehrlich, the Lafayette Park Conservancy's newly appointed Executive Director. With all proceeds benefiting tree care and preservation efforts, this signature fundraiser offers a unique opportunity to celebrate historic architecture, exceptional gardens, and the enduring legacy of Lafayette Park.

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Conductor Laureate of SLSO Leonard Slatkin Receives Lincoln Medal in Washington, D.C.

St. Louis Symphony Orchestra Conductor Laureate Leonard Slatkin has become the first classical musician to receive the prestigious Lincoln Medal, honoring his lifelong contributions to American music, arts education, and public service. Read here how he was honored at the Ford Center in Washington, D.C. to celebrate his extraordinary legacy in St. Louis and beyond. A feature documentary, Don't Call Me Maestro, produced and directed by award-winning documentarian Miran Halen will highlight his upcoming role as Music Director of the Nashville Symphony, chronicling four generations of the Slatkin family's impact on American music.

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Flower Power: Where Floral Artistry Meets Philanthropy

The annual Flower Power fundraiser once again brought together a devoted community of supporters to celebrate the enduring beauty and legacy of Tower Grove Park. One of St. Louis' most anticipated charitable gatherings, the event showcased breathtaking floral artistry by more than 20 of the region's most talented designers, an inspiring program, and special recognition for the individuals whose dedication continues to help this historic landmark flourish year after year. Welcoming 250 guests, Flower Power raised more than $95,000 to support the Park's renowned gardens, enhance the visitor experience, and safeguard this historic landscape for generations to come.

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Why St. Louis' Chicest Pool Party Matters More Than Ever

The annual pool party is the Tennessee Williams Festival St. Louis' signature summer fundraiser, helping ensure that one of the Midwest's premier literary and theatrical festivals continues to thrive. Every ticket purchased, every auction bid placed, and every donation made helps sustain a nonprofit organization that works year-round to bring world-class theater, educational programming, and literary scholarship to our community. This year's event—cleverly titled "An In-Appropriate Afternoon by the Pool"—takes place Sunday, July 12, from 3 to 5 p.m. at the magnificent Central West End home of philanthropist Andy Arnold. The title, of course, is a playful nod to this fall's headline production, the Tony Award-winning play Appropriate.

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Dancing with the Stars Raised More than Half Million Dollars for Mental Ilness

Despite a blizzard raging outside in January, the Independence Center sparkled. Nearly 400 people came to the 19th Dancing with the Stars evening held at the Ritz Carlton. By the end of the night more than $555,000 had been raised to support clinical services, community connection, employment opportunities and housing for programs for adults across the region with severe and persistent mental illness. Dancing with the Stars St. Louis is one of the city’s longest-running fundraising traditions — nearly two decades. It has become one of the most highly anticipated fundraising events in the region, and this year was no exception.

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